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Last updated October 31, 2026

Guests and accounts

You can watch and talk to him without signing up. As a guest, everything is tied to this browser: clear its data or switch devices and it’s gone. With a free account, your conversations, his memories of you and your gems stay with you, even on a new phone, and confirming your email adds 20 gems. Videos, calls, buying gems, writing your own him and the creator program need an account.

Forgot your password? Tap “Forgot password?” on the sign-in page and we’ll email you a link that works for one hour.

How replies work

You get 10 free replies every day; they reset each morning in your time zone. After that, a standard reply is 2 gems. A longer memory or the Scorpio v5 model, chosen in chat settings, adds 1 or 2 gems a reply unless your plan includes it. If you run out in the middle of a moment, he finishes his thought as soon as you can reply again.

Your bond

The more you talk, the closer you get: Stranger, Familiar, Fond, Devoted and Only you. Watching his episodes, choosing what happens next and giving him gifts count too. As your bond grows he changes how he talks to you and moments open on his page.

His diary

Every day he writes a page of his diary, for no one: his own day, what goes on inside him, and, more and more as you get closer, you. It’s on his page, and only you can read your copy.

Regulars

Make him a regular from his page and he’ll text you good morning. With Plus or Devoted he’ll also say good night, and you can keep three or five regulars. Turn this off any time under You.

Memory

When you tell him something about yourself, he keeps a short note. You can also choose messages to save as a memory from the chat menu, and with Plus or higher you can pin memories so he never forgets them. See or delete every note under You or in the chat menu.

Identity cards and stories

An identity card tells him who you are in a story. Your stories let you keep several storylines with the same man; your bond and his memories carry across.

Photos, videos and calls

Tap + in a chat to ask him for a photo (30 gems) or a five-second video (120 gems); if one fails, the gems come back. Calls are in his own voice: 12 gems for each minute started, settled when you hang up, and the first minute of your first call is free. His wardrobe is a preview: pulls use free preview tickets.

Episodes

The first two episodes of every story are free. The rest come with Plus and Devoted.

Still stuck?

Write to support@himly.love, or to us from You, Tell us something.