Community guidelines

Last updated October 30, 2026

himly is romance and characters for people 16 and over. Chatting and calling with the men, his diary and his days are for members 18 and over. To keep it a place where everyone feels safe, please follow these rules.

Ground rules

• No hate speech or harassment: don’t attack anyone’s race, religion, gender, sexuality or identity, and don’t threaten or demean other members.
• Nothing involving minors: every character is an adult, and no conversation, creation or upload may show or suggest a minor.
• No incest.
• No extreme gore or violence.
• No explicit sexual content: stories on himly are romantic, not explicit.
• Nothing about real people: don’t upload someone else’s photo, and don’t write about real, living people.

What you create and share

Men you create, comments and shared moments all follow these rules. Public content is reviewed first, and anything that breaks them is removed.

Reporting

You can report a man, a moment, a comment, a creator’s page or a chat, and we’ll look at it quickly. You can also block a man you don’t want to see again.

Breaking the rules

Content that breaks these rules is removed, and the account behind it may be limited or closed.